Ask Me About - August 2, 2024

I am delighted to have the privilege of being appointed as your minister for the next year. I want to say thank you for the welcome messages I have received from folks this past week, and I look forward to meeting all of you, in person or electronically, over the next few months.

I know that in the past few years, you have looked forward to a daily reflection from your minister. I am pretty sure that I won’t be able to keep up that pace. But, I will commit to sending out at least one reflection each week during my time here.

Some thoughts and ideas might be shamelessly plagiarized (with accreditation of course) from the many blogs and theologians that I read on an ongoing basis. Or, perhaps from the Lenten Study that I wrote for the United Church of Canada in 2017 called Parables, Prayers and Promises, Some thoughts on Jesus.

Some reflections might be about the coming week’s worship theme. And some may be me sharing surprising moments of awe and wonder that I have experienced throughout the week.

        This week – I thought I might tell you a bit more about me, and who you have hired to be your minister for a year. There is some background information about my ministry and employment history in the announcement from the board. And, there is a bit of information about my family added to the general bio on the website.

But perhaps you would like to know a bit more.

My friend in Northern Ireland, when introducing himself at an event, after some very brief remarks, often said … during the break or our meal time you are free to ask me questions. He would say … you could  “ask me about the time when I met … and then he would name a famous person … ” … or “ask me about my work with …” and he might name a specific group of people – or “ask me about the time the youth group set off the fire alarm in the village.”. It immediately created a curiosity, and a desire for more information.

So for me, for example, you could …

        … ask me about the time I spent three months at the Corrymeela Peace and Reconciliation Centre in Northern Ireland, and the 10 return trips that I did with university students and church folks.

Or, perhaps you might want to ask me about why I take the stairs one at a time … and I will tell you a little about my catastrophic injury 9 years ago in my St. John’s office that ruptured my Achilles tendon, caused me to be in a cast for 8 months, and resulted in 2 surgeries.  Or … perhaps you even might want to ask me about the time many years ago when I was in a band singing Irish songs throughout the Maritimes[MM1] . (That’s one of my two truths and a lie statements!)

Or … one of my favourite topics, “ask me about the GO Project, a United Church youth program. (Spoiler: my daughter Alana Martin, also a Diaconal Minister, is the lead staff to this program.)

        I am happy to fill in the details in our conversations later. In the meantime, here a few things to know about me as we begin our journey.

Number 1:

        I am a Diaconal Minister in the United Church of Canada. Many of you might ask … what exactly is a Diaconal Minister? We get that a lot.

        In the United Church of Canada, there is one Order of Ministry with two streams of ministers – Ordained ministers, and Diaconal ministers. Where ordained ministers are ordained to the ministry of word, sacrament and pastoral care, diaconal ministers are commissioned to the ministry of education, service and pastoral care. However, most members of the order of ministry in reality are involved in all of the aspects of ministry.

The training for diaconal ministry is quite different from ordained ministry, in that it focuses more deeply on an action/reflection model, and in the areas of education, justice and pastoral care.

Number 2:

Although I have lived over 45 years in Halifax, Nova Scotia, I actually grew up in Toronto. I came to Toronto in 1977 – that part relates to the question about singing Irish songs with the band. I still have family and good friends in Ontario that I try to visit when I can.

Number 3:

I like to refer to movies, books, songs, poems, paintings, TV shows, news articles … pop culture in general, in my sermons and studies. I don’t believe that as Christians we can make sense of our ancient story unless we can apply it to our everyday lives – and most of us are consumers of the culture around us in some way.

I began to do this very early in my career – working with youth and young adults, and in university chaplaincy. I find that culture helps us connect with the biblical story in new ways.

And finally, Number 4:

    An important focus in my personal life and in my ministry recently is about

discovering how I can be part of (in the words of a decades old United Church of Canada resource), “mending the world” … and how to best walk in solidarity with marginalized folks in our communities. For example, people with disabilities, racialized people, indigenous peoples, or the LGBTQIA2S community to name just a few.

Especially in the past few years, I have learned that this means continuously understanding and confronting my own white privilege, unpacking the baggage and biases of my own history, and naming racism, ableism, classism, and homophophia.

It usually means a lot of listening, and often sitting in a place of discomfort for a time.

I am on a learning curve with this one and I am always looking for companions to do this work, and learn, with me. It is not easy work. I know that this congregation is already doing some of this work, and I look forward to walking with you as we worship, plan and grow together over the next year.

I love to share ideas, and firmly believe that conversation and deep listening enhances understanding and relationships. Please do not hesitate to contact me if you would like to meet – (and ask me questions! …) either by phone, email or in person.

Visiting Martha - August 16, 2024

The Celts talk about “thin places” … places where the veil between the real world and the “other” world are thin. Places that go beyond what your five senses can feel.

Perhaps we might say that they are places where God breaks through … or, where we allow ourselves to experience God breaking through. Sometimes I have heard these times referred to as “God moments.”

Some congregations actually offer times in the weekly worship service when folks are invited to come forward and share these God moments with the rest of the faith community. Times during the week when they have felt God, or Holy Mystery … moments of awe and wonder, in the past week. Perhaps it was a moment of deep connection with someone. Or a moment of stillness watching a sunrise or sunset. Or, a moment of deep joy when you heard children laughing.

Sometimes, I need a little help remembering all the God moments in my life. I am blessed – there have been many.  This help often comes in the form of objects that remind me of those times. Times when I have felt close to God. Times when I knew that the Spirit was moving in my life, even though I might not have recognized it at the time.

The object is a reminder to me to try to move into the unknown, even when it is uncomfortable. And that God is always surprising us.

When I start bringing my “stuff” into my office next week … (my newly painted, newly carpeted office, thanks to a wonderful team of folks who have worked diligently over the past couple of weeks to make that happen!) … you will see an eclectic collection of random objects scattered about.

Objects that remind me of communities and people in my life, of God moments and thin places. They remind me that we carry our experiences with us wherever we go.   

I am happy to tell you about any of them … but here are a few of the things you might see.

Pictures of the groups that have accompanied me to the Corrymeela Peace and

Reconciliation Centre, Ireland’s oldest peace centre, in the past 10 years.

My Jesus Action figure. I’ve had him since my early days as a Chaplain at Mount Saint Vincent University, and he has traveled with me many times. His only official tricks are that he glides and blesses – which, if you can only do two things, gliding and blessing are pretty much right up there. Close companion is the Jesus Bobblehead. And my prized possession, my Last Supper Lunchbox.

A collection of rocks. Some came from Lake Huron, a place where I spent many summers in my early years and still visit. Included are my small collection of rocks with holes in the centre, and my heart shaped rocks that I have found or was given over the years.                                                          

Two birds. The coloured one is from Solintename, Nicaragua. I bought it when I was in Managua, Nicaragua in 1997 with my class from the Centre for Christian Studies. The Gospels in Solintename are four volumes of transcripts of bible studies in the early years of the Nicaraguan Revolution. They document the liberation that comes with community engagement, conversation, and the stories of Jesus.

The little white bird is from my spouse Pat, from New Orleans.  Part of the BirdProject, it came encased in black soap, also shaped like a bird, made from Louisiana Clay. As the soap is used, eventually the ceramic bird inside is freed – a symbol of restoration and recovery from an oil spill disaster. This also reminds me of the power within, and how we all need the help of others to be restored and whole. It also has a bit of a chip on its beak. That happened in my hurry to free the bird from the soap. It reminds me that sometimes we often have scars, bumps and bruises from our experiences. It’s who we are.

A wooden painted cross from El Salvador which I bought at Phoenix Rising, an international interfaith university chaplains’ conference in Vancouver in 2000. I am not usually drawn to a cross as a symbol of my faith, but these beautifully painted crosses from Central America, with scenes of people and landscapes, and community, are symbols of life.

My hand made prayer beads, which a colleague and close friend taught me to make, and which I have in turn taught other groups how to make 

A finger labyrinth, which reminds me of life’s journey, with all its twists and turns.

These items have traveled with me over the past 35 years, sometimes spread out between 2 or even 3 offices. They traveled to Toronto and back. I wasn’t sure what to do with them when I looked at them last fall when I unpacked. It appears that they will have another home for the next year.

What helps you to remember the “God moments” in your life?