Retaining Newcomers

People often ask me about the success I seem to have with retaining newcomers, people who show up in church for a “look see” and end up staying for a longer period of time. Colleagues have asked me about this, what my strategy is, an article I might point to, a workshop or “best practices” I could lead...

feeling grievance

Today on the bus two men in their mid-40’s sitting behind me were talking about their work. Both were aggrieved that some of their co-workers were looking down their noses at them. One man said to the other, “He has a piece of paper from Dalhousie because mommy and daddy paid for it...

We Are Family

A good friend of mine recently conducted a survey of churches in his small city. He called all of the churches, big and small, all denominations, and he called late at night so no one would be in the office. My friend wanted to hear all of the voicemails...

feelings

This week I was asked for advice on how to share one’s feelings. Many reading this will wonder if the person seeking this counsel thought he was speaking to another Kevin Little, one in a parallel universe, a man in touch with his feelings...